Thomas’s family: I'm so sorry for your loss. I went through a similar situation and I was very helped by the hope that I found in the Bible in John 5:28, which says, "Do not amazed at this, for the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out". I am sending you a link with more information on this hope.
jw.org/finder?pub=w14&issue=20140101&wtlocale=E&srcid=share
It is with deep sorrow that I learned of the passing of Cousin Tom. He was a kind, giving person, never missing the opportunity to send a greeting or condolence to family members. I remember a young Tom and June at their engagement party on , I think it was Logan Place, before moving to Dilyn. They epitomized young and lasting love.
Sincere condolences to Tom's family. He will not be forgotten.