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Mass of Christian Burial
11:00 am - 12:15 pm
Saturday, August 15, 2026
St. Vincent Martyr Church
26 Green Village Road
Madison, New Jersey, United States
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Betsy Zimmerman posted a condolence
Wednesday, May 6, 2026
When I think about our children’s elementary school years, their time in Matt’s 4th grade classroom stands out as among their happiest. He showed up every day full of laughter, energy, and enthusiasm, but also with a deep sense of caring and truly “seeing” each of his students. In short, he showed them what it means to be a great teacher.
Matt’s teaching methods emphasized humor (always!), but also creativity, critical thinking, and character development. I remember that he often incorporated movement to engage his students, throwing and catching a Nerf ball with each child as he asked them a math problem. His classroom became a sanctuary for many — a place where kids not only grew academically, but also learned invaluable life lessons about integrity, perseverance, and pushing themselves to try new things.
I remember when he told our daughter she was “great” at math and convinced her to join the math team he had organized - something she most certainly would otherwise never have considered. But this sort of encouragement wasn’t unique to her. He made everyone feel like a favorite. He made a point of learning about each child’s favorite hobbies and activities, and then showed up for at least one event a year for each of them. You would find him on the sidelines of a student’s soccer game, in the audience at a piano recital, or in the bleachers at a basketball tournament. I don’t know how he found the time, but he made each of them feel so special. We are filled with gratitude that this amazing human was part of our lives. And whenever he spoke about his family, it was always with such obvious pride and love.
I can’t hope for anything more meaningful for his loved ones than that they see in themselves at least a few of Matt’s most distinctive qualities, and that this lasting reflection of his spirit and character brings all of you some measure of comfort. We send you our deepest sympathy.
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Scott Spelker Posted May 10, 2026 at 3:04 PM
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Wednesday, May 6, 2026
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Dr. Spelker became my middle school principal at HTS in 7th grade, and in 8th grade I put him on my “8th grade prank list.”
On the last day of school, he was the only person I had yet to get. That day, I snuck two incredibly large garbage bags stuffed with packing peanuts into my friends’ and my lockers.
While all the teachers and staff went outside to stand by the bus line and wave as students left (a HTS last-day tradition), I slipped into Dr. Spelker’s office and unloaded the packing peanuts as a final graduation “gift.”
Afterward, I rushed to the buses, and as I left HTS for the last time, Dr. Spelker stood waving goodbye to me.
When I got home, my dad greeted me with a certain look. He had just gotten off the phone with the school. “Tell your son he got me.”
Years later, after graduating from Elon University in 2023, I met up with Dr. Spelker and asked if I could plant my oak sapling at HTS (all Elon graduates are given an oak to plant where they’ve put down roots). He welcomed the idea, and today my oak still stands there, near where teachers line up each year to wave goodbye to students.
Dr. Spelker was an amazing man who created a space where I was able to thrive. The lessons I learned at HTS I carry with me every day, and his impact on me and so many others will never be forgotten.
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James Stricchiola posted a condolence
Tuesday, May 5, 2026
Matt asked me 3 years ago to coach his Harding basketball team. I had a chance first- hand to witness how much all of those kids in that school loved him. My heart will forever remember that. I also remember that before he became a teacher he would sit in the back of my class on Back to School Night writing down everything I said. What he didn’t know is… he didn’t need to. He was that special.
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The Lazor Family posted a condolence
Monday, May 4, 2026
Our family had 3 children at Harding Township School over the course of 12 years. When we started Matt was the Principal and then moved onward and upward to Superintendent and further to Dr. Spelker. He always had a smile on his face, time to talk and looked you in the eye. He cared deeply about the school community and always had a personal touch to his interactions. He was always so proud of his own family and would share their latest accomplishments. We are sending our deepest condolences to the Spelker family and all our love.
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Sunday, May 3, 2026
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Mark J. Camelotto Posted May 3, 2026 at 4:25 PM
As his 6th grade teacher at Kings Road School - who went from teaching to business - I was surprised to get a call from the Superintendent of Harding Schools, who went from finance to Education ! Matt was a crafty young man who was always learning; challenging; laughing; and helpful to others. He must be sorely missed, and my sincere condolences to all of his family.
Warm regards,
Mark Camelotto
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Martha O'Connor posted a condolence
Sunday, May 3, 2026
Bernie and I are so sad to hear the news about Matt.
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Theresa and Rich Deo posted a condolence
Sunday, May 3, 2026
We are so very sad to hear this news. We got to see Matt weekly at the Waverly. He was always so kind to my grandkids and would give them a dollar and talk to them. He will truly be missed. Our thoughts and prayers to his wife and family.
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Sunday, May 3, 2026
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Pamela Fry lit a candle
Saturday, May 2, 2026
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My sincere condolences to Kathie, Chris, Samantha and the entire Spelker Family. I worked with Matt his entire tenure at HTS. From his familiar fist bumps at the crosswalk to the laughter he shared with colleagues in the halls, his spirit is woven into the fabric of our school. Matt was the cornerstone of HTS, and his presence will be profoundly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
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Friday, May 1, 2026
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